Leadership is influence. Everything rises and falls on leadership, everything.
All offense is to ultimately to have us offended at God.
Choose to not be offended.
- Satan’s ultimate goal is to get you to be offended at God where he can destroy our relationship with God and then, he can destroy us. (Luke 7:23, NKJV)
- Our ultimate goal as Christians should be to not get offended.
- Jesus never got offended no matter what people did or said. (John 19:8-16, TLB)
- God has power over those that offend us, so stop worrying about it.
- Jesus’s response to those who crucified Him was to forgive them. (Luke 23:34, NKJV)
How to live with less offense.
- Forgive quickly.
- Forgive before they ask.
- Forgive because you understand and know God is in control and knows what they are saying and doing.
- Forgive because if we don’t it will hurt us as much or more than it does the one who has offended us.
- If we harbor offense or try to get back, we are playing God. (Romans 12:17-21, NKJV)
- The goal is to get to a point that we are walking void of offense and being offended. (Psalm 119:165, KJV)
- Offenses are based on expectations.
- The greater the expectations you have in somebody, the more likely you are to be offended by them.
- The closer you are to someone the easier it is for them to offend you.
- Learn to love people but put your faith and expectation in God.
- The key verse to learn how to deal with offenses: (1 Corinthians 2:5, NKJV)
- Questions to ask yourself:
Is the real reason I’m so offended is that my faith was in that person instead of God?
Am I offended because I feel I need to take care of this instead of allowing God to handle it?
Am I offended because of the way it made me feel, instead of what God says about me and how He makes me feel?
Homework:
Try to live life LESS offended this week!





























































Everything rises and falls on leadership. If you can grow your leadership it will help grow your home, job and every area of your life.